Quotes

I don’t think England should be represented abroad by an unmarried man

I don’t think England should be represented abroad by an unmarried man... It might lead to complications. Oscar Wilde, A…

12 years ago

Abroad is where sex happens and where the British are most at risk

It is also, you will notice, foreign. We find it helpful to associate sexual products and practices with foreigners because—naturally—we…

12 years ago

Our Madonna was Queen Victoria

Remember that for most of the last century this country’s iconic woman—our Madonna, as it were (in both the Catholic…

12 years ago

Some married women have feelings that to submit to men is wrong

The reasons for non-consummation are the same as ever, she reports, in spite of our apparent enlightenment on sexual matters.…

12 years ago

They’re both Christian and so didn’t do it

Others say they’re both Christian and so didn't do it before they got married—and then cannot bear to do it…

12 years ago

In some bedrooms, it seems, the Victorian age lives on

In some bedrooms, it seems, the Victorian age lives on. There are still men like John Ruskin, who failed to…

12 years ago

We are a nation of uptight neurotics

As for sex, some Brits take a perverse delight in the idea that we are a nation of uptight neurotics.…

12 years ago

The British consider sex far too fleshy for comfort

The British consider sex far too fleshy for comfort. Henry Porter, “Too close for our comfort”, The Observer, 13 October…

12 years ago

Not doing it with your husband or wife was seen as a virtue

There was a time when failing to consummate a marriage was something to sing about: before the advent of the…

12 years ago

School sex education told you everything about the sexual act

But according to Julia Cole... it is not the broad technical details that modern married couples lack so much as…

12 years ago